Good relationships are light hearted and fun, while intimate and profound. They require nurturance in the form of thoughtful effort from both partners in order to flourish. When both partners are infused with genuine depth, compassion, and a love of humor, the 'work' in relationships isn't difficult. As well, that effort is a 'bonding cement' for loving partners.
It's good for a couple to have that 'bonding cement' I mentioned above flow freely from time to time, but in small amounts. It's not good for a couple to get their feet stuck in the stuff. Most of all, it's very important for anyone whose feet are laden with any form of cement to avoid swimming and all other water sports. Actually, this last point is one that I've learned separately from any of my past relationships. However, I felt it was important to bring this safety tip to you as a public service.
The woman I'm looking for is exceptionally kind, exceptionally loving, exceptionally bright, exceptionally communicative, exceptionally cute, and she's exceptionally accepting of the word 'exceptional.' As am I, you're the possessor of a genuine love of intimacy and a strong sense of self. Your intellectual and emotional bravery are compelling for me. Where more tangible compatibility is concerned, and launched from self description, professionally I'm a doctor. Physically, I'm a trim and athletcially built guy at 5'10." You should be also. Well, that is, trim, athletically built and professional. You don't need to be a doctor, you don't have to be 5'10," and you certainly should NOT be a guy.
I try to sidestep formulating how relating with a unique person I don't yet know should unfold. I'm not interested in quick judgements, and I'm quite tolerant of a mishap or an awkward moment in general. On a first date I look to share the humor built into the event, and for that matter, everyday living. Finding a similar sense of fun in you is a great sign.